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If I can believe in myself, so CAN YOU!!

All my life I have been searching and wandering and looking for people to believe in me and somehow I did attract those people, from my immediately(mom, sister, brother, friends) and 8years ago my husband, I was always wanting them to believe in me and support whatever I was busy with at the time, whatever I was passionate about and it made a big difference for a while, it even kept me going. But to some extent their belief in me was just not enough you know, I still felt a bit empty, that's when I started taking a deep look inside of myself, I started to get to know who I really am and I start loving me, you see most of the time we are so busy looking after others well being and making sure everyone is OK that we forget about number 1 ourselves. Its when I really started pursuing my relationship with God that my life turn around and God helped me to love myself, He helped me to believe in myself and my capabilities and its been an awesome journey.

I grew from a shy girl never wanting to be noticed, just wanting recognition for my talents and being given what's due to me, these days that recognition doesn't even matter because God has filled me up to the brim, I believe with all my heart that I can do all thing through Christ who strengthens me(Philippians 4:13). Many people can believe in you But what makes the difference is your belief in yourself and once you get to that point, you will surely be unstoppable. What has really helped me is my open mind and my teachable Spirit and allowing God in places that I wouldn't allow anyone to come in.

When you arrive to the point of fullness in yourself the support of others and their belief in you will just be an extra boost for you to do whatever you heart desires. Just as much as you love others, with that same measure you have to love yourself and know you deserve to be loved first by God, then by yourself and then by others. The love of others are the by product of your love for yourself.

Belief: A vague idea in which some confidence is placed..

One of the best gifts I have been blessed with is my belief in myself and with God by my side it makes it so much easy and so much more beautiful for He is Love!

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