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Value YOURSELF?

How much Value do you put on yourself? How you treat others is a true reflection of how you treat yourself. I can pay for a good quality coffee and enjoy it and know it was worth my money, but how different is that to me treating myself in buying a good book that will change my life even challenge me to deal with my issues that haunt me. Well maybe that is a stupid example my point being I will pay money for good quality coffee or a good meal from Woolworths yet you and I will think twice about attending a Conference / Workshop / Seminar to improve myself / yourself and the quality of our lives.

How much do you Value your relationships? I read something this morning that said “what you don’t value you neglect” so it is then safe to say if I don’t VALUE myself I will neglect myself, therefore if I VALUE myself I will not neglect myself / I will take care of myself.

If I don’t VALUE my relationships (friendships /spouses /Life Partners/Boyfriends) I will neglect them, so if we (you and I) VALUE our relationships (friendships / Spouses/ Life Partners / Boyfriends) we will take care of those relationships.

REFLECTION: How much do you VALUE yourself? Have you ever give it much thought?


When we find our TRUE WORTH we automatically allow ourselves to enhance our relationships, no one can put a VALUE on us unless we give them permission to do so. YOU determine YOUR WORTH no one else does!

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