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How comfortable are you in your own skin?

Good Morning ! One question: How comfortable are you in your own skin?

I ask this question because for years I was not at all comfortable in my own skin, until I dealt with my issues. Paula White in her book "Deal With It" says that you cannot conquer that which you will not confront, how do we conquer the issues that haunt us such as self-hatred, anger, resentment, frustration, un-forgiveness the list is endless with all these negative emotions control us. We have a choice, YOU have choice. when we give ourselves a chance, a second chance, a third chance as we do for so many others we will see how we will grow and how automatically we become available to others even more, giving of ourselves even more because we have started with ourselves and that is where the start has to start, with us, with YOU. No one is to be blamed for where YOU find yourself today, you have allowed whatever your situation is.

Think about it, what role did you play to where you are today and what can you do to change it? You are in control of your own life, not your mother, not your father, not your spouse, your life partner, your kids, your friends, no one BUT YOU!!

What is that ONE step that you need to take that will bring closure to a past event that has haunt you? a relationship that has gone wrong? A better way to Financial issues, what is it that YOU need to do?

Decide TODAY to take that step! Why because you do deserve better, I believe that for you, WHY? BECAUSE i BELIEVE IT FOR MYSELF FIRST!

Have a WONDERFUL day!! Be the Change you want to see in your own life and then of the world!

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