Be to others what you want them to be to you...

A few years ago a close friend and I were talking and I was telling her how at that time I decided that I wanted to be the friend I want others to be to me. At that time I only used the "friend" context until I thought about it last week, what if I was to be the wife I want my husband to have and sow the seeds for him to be the husband I want him to be, what if I am the sister I want my sister to be to me, what if I am the confidant I want others to be to me?

So I have decided that within my sphere of influence that is exactly what I am going to do and it aligns with my vision for 2014 to walk in love at all times and let love be by motivation. What about you? Are there areas in your life that you know can do with some enrichment? I want to encourage you that today is as good a day as any to start paving a way for a better tomorrow for yourself and your families and friends around you.

What am I going to gain out of this:

1. I will be a better wife
2. I will be a better sister
3. I will be a better confidant
4. I will be a better person

Scripture tells us that what we sow we shall reap. So if you and I sow kindness, love, joy, peace, positivity that is exactly what we will receive however not in our time in God's time, we just have to be willing to walk in love and sow those seeds that we would love to receive. In the end it's entirely up to YOU & ME to make that change.

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