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I cant keep QUIET anymore...It's TIME to SPEAK OUT!

We live in a society where the men of today have no respect for women, not only don't they respect women in general they disrespect their WIVES whom they have sworn in front of God and many other witnesses "to love, honor and cherish, for better or worse, in sickness and in health till death to us part"

Today I am going to speak about my frustration I have with MEN, men who use and abuse their spouses, men who think that their wives are there to be degraded, disrespected and made feel unworthy. Men who has not even ONCE taken it upon themselves to meet their wives emotional needs yet always are on the go, men who don't take time to even get to know their wives but complain how their wives don't take interest in them and so they live lives of single men. So tell me "men" when will you stand up and take your rightful place in the home of your wife and children? When will you treat and love your wife as Christ do the Church? When will you stop blaming your wife for your deeds? When will you start taking responsibility for yourself?

I want to THANK all the MEN who has taken up their rightful places in their homes and who are constantly and consistently striving towards what God has called them to be in their homes. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Our society is riddled with men who pass the buck and complain instead of being the CHANGE they want to see. It's TIME for the men who has abused their right as husbands to take a good look in the mirror and ask themselves "Have I really been honoring and cherishing, .loving and taking good care of my wife or have I played by my own rules?"

I have the WORLD of respect for MEN who says "I am sorry for this and that...would you please forgive me" I have the world of respect for a man who knows what he needs to work on to be the best he can be for his wife and kids.

It's time that we should encourage our men to become EMOTIONALLY, SPIRITUALLY, MENTALLY & PHYSICALLY healthy and I know it takes time, however "the journey of a thousand miles began with ONE step"

It is NOT OKAY for a man to mistreat his wife in whatever shape or form, it is not okay for a husband to abuse his right of being a husband by degrading his wife, the Bible says "My people perish through lack of knowledge" we are connected and its time that we link arms and build a new generation of families, this world has been perverted enough!

I am putting myself out there once again to be there for other women who have / who is going through any of what I have mentioned above, we serve a God of LOVE and He holds us accountable with our testimonies. God wants DELIVERANCE to take place and turn your house that might feel like HELL into a HAVEN of Love and all the good things that God stands for. 

My fellow sisters many of our women feel that they are alone going through their stuff, yet many of us have similar stories and you can be of HOPE and ENCOURAGEMENT to that woman/women.
Don't keep your story to yourself, its time we tell our stories for God's glory and to shine the light in dark places

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