Empowerment = Liberation!!

I always heard this word in the context of work, jobs skills development etc, but then I heard another instance of empowerment, taking control of your life and of your behavior, accepting your state at that moment and knowing that it determines your behavior, never have I thought so much hangs on your state, when I came to understand this whole concept I was very surprised at what a bad influence I have been in my choices that I made due to the state I was in as that was reflected in my behavior, Empowerment is a powerful word and when you are empowered you are in control, what you believe deep down inside of yourself gets fired up because now you want to make things work for the better take the best moments and learning’s from your past choices and have them serve you toward that which you are striving for towards a better life a better future.

Empowerment, I love that word, you are only empowered when you decide to take a stand, only when you decide to take control and change things in your life, you have the power within you to create the things in you life that you want and also the things that you have always desired, Empowerment having the choice to live a full life, knowing what you want and pursuing that which only you can change and taking responsibility for your actions and learn from it all to serve you in the future, we are made to believe that we should follow this and follow that, when you are Empowered you lead, you live, you create, you grow. Empowerment a tool for which we can use and treasure and be teachable enough to take CHARGE. You stand in the way of your destiny, you stand in the way of you capabilities, time to step out of your comfort zone and find those learning’s from the past choices and all learning’s are positive don’t forget , take that and build on it the time is now!! That’s right…make that move, go on you can do it!!

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