Expressions of Myself

 My husband and I have been on this mission since coming back from our fantastic holiday, we have both decided that everyday we will have a “M.O” (Modus Operandi) for when we get home, each one has specific tasks to do and whatever we say we have to do, no matter how tired we are, the aim is to stay true to what we have said. Now some might think but that is quite silly or it’s mundane etc, BUT what we have experienced is that because we have started at home with this it filters through to our work lives as well, and every other area of our lives.   “ Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror   and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be ...

First of all I just want to make it very clear that I love all my friends with all my heart, and if one of you read this and feel a bit of discomfort then I think you need to examine your heart and find out why you feel a little discomfort, I know that this Blog will help you become a better friend, I strive for that everyday. Enjoy!! Growing up moving from Namibia where life is very much family orientated , you are constantly surrounded by mothers , fathers ,aunts , uncles, sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews, cousins etc. This last week my husband and myself have been really talking a lot about “friendships” and we ask the question do we have real friendships or just acquaintances? I asked this question because when I moved from Windhoek to Cape Town I had no family and I made friends and over the years the friends circle has become a little less, the reason I am writing about this word “friendship” is because there has been something bugging me, you know how it is when you feel you...

Being disconnected from everyone and even the life that you know as a norm or as your daily life can be a shocker at times, it's like having an addiction of sorts and the first couple of days you get "withdrawal symptoms" that leaves you somewhat unsure of what to expect, well for me being disconnected this last 2 weeks turned out to be the best gift I could give myself and my family. We take the people in our lives for granted because we get so caught up with ourselves, pleasing ourselves and we totally forget about the people closest to you, we forget about the relationships that need nurturing for them to grow and prosper, cos just like a plant needs water to grow so does relationships need time and communication, understanding for it to grow too. God has once again blown me away, He has once again showed me that His ways are higher than my ways, His thoughts are not my thoughts and He knows what's best for me and my family, being disconnected without any outside i...