Disconnected by grace and for purpose...

Being disconnected from everyone and even the life that you know as a norm or as your daily life can be a shocker at times, it's like having an addiction of sorts and the first couple of days you get "withdrawal symptoms" that leaves you somewhat unsure of what to expect, well for me being disconnected this last 2 weeks turned out to be the best gift I could give myself and my family.

We take the people in our lives for granted because we get so caught up with ourselves, pleasing ourselves and we totally forget about the people closest to you, we forget about the relationships that need nurturing for them to grow and prosper, cos just like a plant needs water to grow so does relationships need time and communication, understanding for it to grow too.

God has once again blown me away, He has once again showed me that His ways are higher than my ways, His thoughts are not my thoughts and He knows what's best for me and my family, being disconnected without any outside influences just me and my family enjoying our holiday with family has restored not only our sense of family but our sense of purpose, our reason for our marriage, the value of working together as a unit as one working towards a common goal, wanting our lives to be a success in all the ways possible! My disconnection has been Refreshing! It has molded me into the wife, mother friend I have always wanted to be!

Its been one wonderful journey of experiencing God's grace and drawing near to Him when all we had was Him that we could count on and that is absolutely awesome! Disconnected is good when you open urself up to new possibilities for your life, you should try it, Jesus did!

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