Friendships ending...

Where I come from friendship is a two way street and for friendships to flourish all parties involved should be evenly invested.

You know what I am tired of? I am tired of being used and abused and when I literally can't give anymore then guess what? I am the bad one and I get tossed away like I am 'damaged' goods.

Thank you to ALL of my aquaintances that were dressed up as 'Friends' whom have removed me from their lives and the ones whom I have removed.

Just a warning to the rest of the world who want to make me their friend, be very careful what your intentions are when you want to be my friend because I will ask you.

I know this for sure - I am the friend to others that I want them to be to me.

You will not find me take out my frustrations on you, I am too mindful of that, I have however been at the receiving end of others frustrations. Today I refuse to internalize others feelings that they project onto me.

I will not be used anymore and be sure I will sift through my future friendships and a prerequisite is: Knowing God and that His plans are to prosper and not harm you.

I will not just blindly go into friendships I will consult God about my future friendships.

I have learned a valuable lesson.

Friendships ends because there is an imbalance and because of emotions that are not being controlled.

I refuse to be a punching bag for others.

When you know you've served your friendships well and you know who you are and Who's you are, you need not feel bad for standing up for yourself and what you believe in. You have a Voice USE IT!

Not everyone in your life is going where you are going and you will have to release friendships and let them go with no anger or resentment in your heart just a sense of peace left behind knowing their season has ended in your life and its ALL good!

There now, I have released!
I am feeling light!!
In His Love, Zenneline Louw

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