I am learning to be assertive and let go when people have served their purpose in my life, its not easy but its OK, I am learning that there are seasons in life and as seasons go by so does people in my life too, some are there for a season and some are there for a life time but I am learning to be present through all seasons no matter how tough...God helps me through these seasons of transition...all the time.
ALSO another thing I am learning in this season is, just because someone is unresponsive to you for whatever reason it doesn't mean that I must change my way of doing things, if I am naturally caring, friendly and so on, just because one person fail to acknowledge me doesn't mean I must change my demeanor. Life is busy and so are we all however we need to decide to pause and "make" time for the ones whom we want to have in our lives. You can never be too busy for the people whom you love and enjoy being in your life.
if you are struggling with emotions especially negative ones like hurt, resentment, sadness, anger, unforgiveness do yourself a favor start unpacking it. Write it down, what are you feeling? Why are you feeling this way? To who are these feelings directed and why? Pen them down and afterwards let it go, burn it up, you will see how liberated you will feel. Be honest with yourself, Be honest with God (For me God is my sound board because He is always there even if I feel He isn't). its hard to find a tangible person whom you can be "real" with but once you start opening up to God from your very core it becomes easier to open up to one person and God will provide that person for you.
ALSO another thing I am learning in this season is, just because someone is unresponsive to you for whatever reason it doesn't mean that I must change my way of doing things, if I am naturally caring, friendly and so on, just because one person fail to acknowledge me doesn't mean I must change my demeanor. Life is busy and so are we all however we need to decide to pause and "make" time for the ones whom we want to have in our lives. You can never be too busy for the people whom you love and enjoy being in your life.
if you are struggling with emotions especially negative ones like hurt, resentment, sadness, anger, unforgiveness do yourself a favor start unpacking it. Write it down, what are you feeling? Why are you feeling this way? To who are these feelings directed and why? Pen them down and afterwards let it go, burn it up, you will see how liberated you will feel. Be honest with yourself, Be honest with God (For me God is my sound board because He is always there even if I feel He isn't). its hard to find a tangible person whom you can be "real" with but once you start opening up to God from your very core it becomes easier to open up to one person and God will provide that person for you.
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