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2nd ChAnCeS!!

I have been thinking alot, alot about these two words "second chances", who deserves a second chance and what does this second chance mean, second chance in life second chance in making a relationship work, second chance to do your job the best way you can, second chance to give your best in everything you do, but how practical and achievable is it? Pretty easy I would say given the chance of course, cause what happens when  you are not going to be given a second chance at a relationship? what happens when you don't get the second chance you have been praying for? what happens when you only have this one chance right now, to make your life anew, to start afresh and call this your "second best chance", I can deal with that!!

So here is the deal how much do you want a second chance, first and foremost if you want it bad enough you will go after it with all that you are and you will not, I repeat you will not let anything or anyone get in your way, because you have set your goal on living your life the best way possible, for anything to become better in  your life you have got to be plugged into your source, in my case my source of existence is Christ, in whom I find EVERYTHING that sustains me, and how do I keep plugged into Him, by seeking Him through reading His word( The Bible) and spending lots of time in prayer. So once you have identified your source, you need to think of your desired outcomes( what does God want you to achieve in this life ), once you have that, then you set out obtainable goals to achieve the big goal.

You have got to know who you are and if you don't know yet I encourage you today to find out what makes you tick, you can do this prayerfully or you can just ask the questions and be honest with yourself, questions like: Who am I? What is most important  to me? What do I believe in? What are my weaknesses and how can I turn them into strengths? The journey to second chances begins with honesty with  yourself  and knowing yourself and being ready to invest in yourself.

"The faithful love of the Lord never ends! His mercies never cease.Great is his faithfulness;his mercies begin afresh each morning.I say to myself, “The Lord is my inheritance;therefore, I will hope in him!” Lamentations 3:22-24

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